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Labia
The folds of skin on either side of the vagina. Also part of the vulva (the external genitals on someone assigned female at birth).
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Leng
This refers to calling someone 'sexy' or good looking.
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Lesbian
Someone of a non-male gender identity who is attracted to feminine aligned genders.
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Levonelle
A name for contraception used in an emergency. This is to prevent sperm from reaching an egg and fertilising it. This is more commonly known as the 'morning after pill'.
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LGBTQ+
The acronym for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer and/or questioning. Visit our LGBTQ page to find out more.
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Love
There are many different types of love. This can be romantic, between friends and family, or loving activities or hobbies. This can be an intense feeling of care or affection for someone or something.
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Love Bite
When someone sucks or gently bites the skin of another person leaving a red mark. This is sometimes called a hickey.
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Lubrication
A slippery fluid you can use to make sex easier and more fun. Some oil-based lubricants can damage the condom so make sure you use a water-based lubricant and read the instructions.
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Are you ready to have sex?
It can be difficult to decide whether it's the right time for you to have sex. You should know that whatever anyone else might say, the decision to have sex for the first time or anytime is YOURS. It might feel ok to do it or it might not feel ok. You need to trust your instincts and do what is right for you.
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Be clear on consent
It is important that sex is always consensual. This means being conscious enough and safe/comfortable enough to say yes to any type of sexual contact, whether that's talking about sex, touching, or taking part in sexual acts. It's about both parties feeling actively excited and comfortable in a sexual situation. Remember you can change your mind at any point, whether that means saying "no" or stopping any kind of activity.
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Contraception choices
If you are thinking about having sex and you don‘t want to become pregnant then you need to use a method of contraception. Most methods of contraception will not protect you from sexually transmitted infections so whatever method you choose you also need to think about protection (avoiding getting a sexually transmitted infection). For this you'll need to use condoms.
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