Are you in a relationship where you’re weak at the knees?
Because you’re scared you're going to be hurt? Feel intimidated? Or controlled?
This is abuse. You don’t have to stand for it
It’s not just someone hitting you. Some people can be in an abusive relationship without even realising.
How can you tell if it’s happening to you?
Emotional abuse can be…
- constantly putting you down
- constantly checking where you are
- stopping you from seeing your friends or family
Sexual abuse can be…
- feeling pressurised to do sexual things such as being touched in a way you don't like, and that feels wrong
- being forced to have sex (oral, vaginal or anal) when you don’t want to
- being forced to look at sexual pictures or videos
- making you watch someone doing something sexual. This can include someone flashing or exposing themselves to you
- being made to send a ‘nude selfie’, or sexually explicit information about yourself, known as sexting
Financial abuse can be…
- not giving you any money
- checking what you spend money on
- stopping you from working
- taking all your money from you
Physical abuse can be…
- hitting, slapping, pushing, kicking, pinching, burning, hair pulling
- throwing or smashing things
- making threats to hurt you or someone you love
It can be very difficult to talk about your feelings and what’s happening in your life, but some problems just won’t go away.
So if you have been affected by an abusive relationship and need advice or want to talk to someone, please use one of the websites or freephone numbers below.
National Domestic Violence Helpline
National campaign website which includes information on consent, sexting, porn and how to have your say.
Men's Advice Line
This is a confidential helpline for all men experiencing domestic violence by a current or ex-partner, in heterosexual or same-sex relationships.
Telephone: 0800 801 0327
Lines open Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm.
A Women's Aid website for children and young people to help them understand domestic abuse, and how to take positive action if it's happening to you.